This is from the most popular article in the New York Times right now. David Brooks goes on to say, "Just as the old sages predicted, worldly success has shallow roots while interpersonal bonds permeate through and through."
Most of us pay attention to the wrong things--society emphasizes the wrong things. This sounds lame, but recently a lot of my friends have joined a group on Facebook called, "Money doesn't buy happiness, but I'd rather cry in a Ferrari." Even though everyone says money doesn't buy happiness, my generation in the back of their minds are saying, "Yeah, but money is what I want most anyway." This is because, as the op-ed said,
"Most people vastly overestimate the extent to which more money would improve our lives...Modern societies have an affinity for material concerns and a primordial fear of moral and social ones."
Thankfully, we don't have to conform with modern society. Just because schools prepare students to make good salaries and not good decisions, and the government emphasizes economic status and not moral status doesn't mean we have to be blind to what truly makes us happy. Boyd K. Packer wisely said in his talk "The Decision of Life,"
"Will we ever learn that the choice is not between fame and obscurity, nor is the choice between wealth and poverty. The choice is between good and evil, and that is a very different issue indeed. When we finally understand that, our happiness will not be determined by the material things, either on one hand or on the other. If we can be shown where the deciding pivotal choices are, we can succeed."